Why a Divorce Concierge is your Perfect solution
Why a Divorce Concierge is your perfect solution
Divorce, or an ending of any partnership, leads to a multitude of necessary tasks to rebuild your life, especially when children are involved. No matter the level of support your other half gave you, it’s an inevitably painful transition to go from two to one.
I’ve experienced this transition. I know the ins and outs to the magnitude that I’ve created a business to help people like you seamlessly step into a new lifestyle.
My background
I’ve been a wife… twice. I’ve been a single mom… twice, and I’ve been a “work wife” for a handful of people for the past 30 years.
When I was a stay at home mom, my email signature said Chief of Staff.
It’s safe to say that I’ve earned my battle scars and have gained a wealth of knowledge and experience surrounding what it takes to keep your life stable, secure, and comfortable during the chaos of a difficult change.
Frankly, I know what your soon to be ex-wife did to manage a household and a family. Now, your sans a Chief of Staff and it’s on you to set up camp. Things are heating up… and it’s starting to feel overwhelming.
I’m not going to discount the input of a father and head of household. You most likely worked your ass off to provide for your family, leaving your wife as Chief of Staff; in charge of the kids, the schedules, the team snacks, the homework, the doctor’s appointments, the birthday parties, school shopping, and groceries.
Not to mention the Costco runs and making sure there’s toilet paper, Tylenol, and Benadryl. Oh yeah, what about the sofa, Wi-Fi, and clean towels.
She knew where the remote was, where the spare keys were, and who to call when red wine spilt on the vintage Turkish rug. It wasn’t Saul, and it wasn’t Siri.
It’s time for you to start from scratch and it wasn’t the same setup as when you moved into your first apartment after college or when you moved from your parent’s basement, because now, you have kids.
Single dad is a different animal than single dude.
My experience
Both of my splits were contentious and drawn out. My kids suffered, and I suffered much longer than I should have. But I learned valuable lessons from both. And in both, I helped set up my exes in their new homes to make them kid-friendly.
I still planned all the birthday parties and handled the school forms and all the details, but it remained unbalanced, and that builds too much resentment.
The bottom line is that kids need both their parents, and this isn’t the 1950s anymore. Dads are more involved, and their involvement is imperative to their relationships with their children. But how are they supposed to know what to do?
Who steps in to lead Training Day if the ex-wife doesn’t?
After seeing how the lack of co-parenting cooperation affected my kids long term, my passionate purpose became the desire to help mitigate this for other families.
Your Other Woman as an answer to your problems
I want Your Other Woman to be the solution. Divorce is so common now, but the resources for the hands-on transition and guidance are not.
I’m here to help fix broken families and give men the tools to be better dads and better ex-husbands. This helps your kids enjoy a new lifestyle, feel comfortable in a new environment, experience a better co-parenting team, and have a thriving childhood.
Your Other Woman isn’t a long-term solution; we’re the training wheels needed to set you up for the lifestyle you crave.
We know what it feels like to be in the muck of it, and that’s why we created this environment- to help you and your family rise through it.
— Apryl Prose, founder of Your Other Woman